Avoidant Attachment

I Was in Hell While Living a Fairytale

Over flat wine from France, I could finally be honest with my husband about the fairytale life I'd been performing. About the castle where I felt…

Nov 1, 2025 • Alisa Sieber

I've Been Running From Heartbreak My Entire Life

A stranger assumed a man broke me. I let him believe it. The truth is more complicated: I am both the heartbreaker and the heartbroken. On finally…

Oct 21, 2025 • Alisa Sieber

The Last Dance in an Empty House

I thought the hole my daughter made broke something. The truth is more complicated: it revealed what was already broken, what I'd been hiding behind…

Feb 7, 2025 • Alisa Sieber

Rules About Love

A journal written at seventeen, on birthdays, heartbreak, and the rules I made to survive longing I did not yet know how to release.

Jan 6, 2005 • Alisa Sieber

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